Mirror sex, or katoptronophilia, is one of the most interesting yet underlooked kinks there are. It can help you build a more profound connection with your partner, improve your self-esteem, spice up your sexual encounters, and can be adapted to all sorts of contexts and mirrors you may have within reach. 

So, What is Mirror Sex, Exactly? 

Mirror sex is the exploration of sex (solo or with a partner) while looking at your reflection in a mirror. We are instinctively wired to derive pleasure from our sense of sight, and from observing and desiring the pleasure others enjoy (which is why porn is attractive). When we practice mirror sex, we get to enjoy the pleasure we are already feeling, plus seeing ourselves as if from the outside (which is why, for some people, mirror sex can also be a path for exploring other types of kinks, such as inviting a third person to join you). So, mirror sex allows you to enjoy observing and desiring the pleasure we are already feeling while creating a positive loop that impacts pleasure intensity, bodily perception, and, ultimately, the connection with your partner. 

You can use all sorts of mirrors for this practice. From small handheld mirrors, in case you want to take a sneaky peek at a particular detail of your bodies, to the full-length and ceiling mirrors you can enjoy here at Executive. 

What to consider before having mirror sex 

As it happens with any other kink, such as role play or sexual toys, the first thing is to bring the topic into consideration with your partner and explore whether they feel comfortable with the idea. A second point to consider, since mirrors are prone to breaking, is ensuring they are properly secured and not leaning on them while having sex.

What are the best positions for mirror sex?  

Finding the best position for the two of you will depend on several factors, ranging from the type of mirror you’re using to how you feel your bodies couple best. Give some of these options a try, which will work great for full-length and ceiling mirrors. 

Sex positions to try in front of full-length mirrors

Doggy Style 

In this position, the receiver gets on all fours, either on their hands or elbows. Then, the giver kneels behind the receiver, penetrating them. Their hands should hold the receiver’s hips or waist for added support. 

This is a very steady position, so it will allow both of you to turn to the side and enjoy the view!

Divine Prayer

The receiver sits at the edge of the bed or a chair, facing the mirror, and the giver leans in to please them with oral sex. Of course, in this position, the giver won’t be able to enjoy the mirror, but the receiver will rejoice in both the pleasure of oral stimulation and the view of their partner’s back.   

Horizon Variation

In this variation of the 69 position, you are not leaning on top of each other, but on the side of your bodies, positioning one of you to support yourself on your elbow and caress your partner while you enjoy your reflection. 

Sex positions to try under a ceiling mirror

Missionary

This basic and widely trusted position is so common because it works wonders! Here, the receiver leans on their back with their legs open, while the giver leans on top of them and penetrates. It allows the receiver to enjoy their reflection on the ceiling mirror while caressing their partner’s back or licking their neck. 

Yin Plug

In this classic tantric position, the receiver is leaning on their back, while the giver leans on their side. In this position, their legs cross as scissors, allowing for penetration. This is not a performative position, but rather one for slow, meditative sex. It will allow both of you to look comfortably in the mirror and have your hands free to please each other. 

These are just a few examples, the options are endless. Just come over and explore with your partner all the possibilities Executive Fantasy Hotel has in store for you!